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Grayscale drawings and words that mark the moments that change a life. When our path falls into a groove carved by others.

Don Sergio sitting at a table
Don Sergio Adelasio’s poem (in Italian)

Don Sergio, “a vast cedar full of life”

You know when, for years, you keep seeing someone’s face hanging on a wall without ever really meeting them, and at some point you feel you almost know them?

That’s how it is for me with Don Sergio.

A simple portrait. Quiet. Always there.

I never really knew him. And yet, of all the people I have met only indirectly over the years, he may be the one who resonates with me most.

Those who knew him describe a man who moved through communities, encounters and human frailty, bringing energy, trust and movement.

One of those people who didn’t need to stand at the center to leave a deep mark. He seemed to belong more to the streets, to encounters and relationships, than to offices.

Some time ago I found a small book of his poems. Reading it, I felt I was meeting him, perhaps for the first time, for real.

In those words I found something I keep searching for myself, in the margins, in people and in unfinished stories.

There is one poem that has stayed with me more than the others. It speaks of love and the Spirit as a great tree full of life, made of countless leaves and branches.

Perhaps some people do exactly this in life: they grow invisible roots, hold people together without making a sound, and leave shade and breath long after they have passed.

That’s why I share it here. As a small gesture of gratitude toward a man I never really knew, but who, in some way, still speaks through what he left behind.

The pilgrim with his walking stick
The walker along the road

The pilgrim

People call him a pilgrim, a wanderer, a walker. But maybe words aren’t enough to describe someone like him.

When he arrives with his worn walking stick, his dreadlocks tossed by the wind and that backpack that seems to hold everything he needs to live, I always feel that somewhere, time slows down.

He walks. He simply walks.

He crosses mountains, small villages and the back roads around Bergamo, Brescia and the rest of Lombardy as if the world were still made of real distances, of steps and seasons.

He sleeps wherever he can. Wherever someone opens a door, offers a quiet corner, a roof, a meadow. Sometimes he asks for something to eat. And almost always he finds someone willing to share a piece of bread, a bowl of soup, a word.

Once a year, he comes to my place too.

What really strikes me is his relationship with time. To reach a place we would get to in two hours by car, he might take two days.

And those two days aren’t a delay. They are the journey.

When he talks about his travels, the people he met along the way, the trails, the rain, sleeping outdoors or in a farmhouse, I feel I’m listening to something from another era.

As if he carried within him a way of living in the world closer to two centuries ago than to today.

We pass through places. He lives in them.

He owns almost nothing. And yet he carries stories, encounters, silences and roads that many of us have forgotten.

Maybe that’s what makes him special: just by walking, he reminds us that a human pace of time still exists.

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